Lynn Butler MAR, MARR, EFTMRA - Women's Health Coach & Therapist.
Reproductive Reflexology – Mindset Coaching – Emotional Freedom Technique. Positively Affecting Change.
Making the decision to have a family later in life (40+) came will both challenges and blessings. I became ready to share our story of fertility, loss and becoming a mum in my 40s a little while ago. The intention of sharing was / is to give an other the permission to also share, to grieve, to try, to allow, to never give up hope.
Finding out we expecting for the first time that we were pregnant was January 2014. Surprise, shock, happiness, joy, excitement, disbelief, anxiety and every emotion in between.
We had a scan at around 8 weeks, seeing that teeny, tiny flickering heart beat of human life was breath taking. We collected our little print out of the scan and went out for a meal to celebrate. Sitting at the restaurant table staring at the scan picture is a memory that will never leave me.
The celebration was to be short lived, as that evening the flicker of human light was blown out. I woke with cramping and knew straight away that something wasn’t right. I held my stomach and made it to the bathroom where my life, our life literally felt it was leaving me.
I let out what felt like a primal scream as I called for my partner. He knew straight away what was happening.
In that instant I heard a voice, “This will make you a better therapist”. At the time I held an interest for fertility, maternity and women’s health reflexology but felt my new direction was unfolding in front of me. I could allow for an empathy like no other.
And this is what happened, I trained with Barbara Scott, here with the Association of Reproductive Reflexologists and gained a whole new way of being and serving.
I will never forget that clear voice, the guidance that presented in a way to support me and others. You do certainly grow through what you go through.
Fast forward 3 years, after having regular Reflexology, working on both my physical and emotional wellbeing we effortlessly conceived our now 3 year old.
I am here to support you with your dream of becoming a parent.